Bodger

Bodger helps you de-escalate heated text messages before you send them. It has two modes: “My message” rewrites a reactive outgoing message from you into a constructive and warm internal feeling, without explicit or implicit blaming of the other person. “Their message” decodes a hurtful incoming message into the emotion underneath it, and suggests a warm reply. What to test: Type or paste a real (or made-up) charged message and try both Soften and Decode. Try the Try another button to get a different take on the same message. Test the Pause section — copy or open the pause message in Messages, set a reminder Use the iMessage extension (find Bodger in the Messages app drawer) — same core flow, inside a conversation Feedback welcome on: output quality (does the reframe feel right?), anything that feels confusing or broken, and any messages where the AI gets it wrong.